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Why Becoming Feels Messy — and Why That’s a Good Thing | James Barbour®

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Why Becoming Feels Messy — and Why That’s a Good Thing | James Barbour® “You’re not broken. You’re becoming.” — James Barbour® We all love the idea of transformation — but few people talk about what it actually feels like. Spoiler: It’s not smooth. It’s not glamorous. It’s not tied up in a bow. Real growth? It’s awkward. Disorienting. Sometimes deeply uncomfortable. But here’s the thing most people miss: that’s what makes it real. Becoming Isn’t a Highlight Reel Before progress shows up, things often fall apart a little. You question your direction. You doubt your decisions. You wonder if you’re back at square one. But that discomfort isn’t failure — it’s the evidence that you’ve stepped out of the old and into the unfamiliar. That’s what becoming looks like. It’s the space between who you were and who you’re becoming. And it’s messy because you’re rewriting your rules. Growth Doesn’t Always Feel Like Growth Some days, growth looks like taking a b...
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The Moments No One Sees Are Often the Ones That Matter Most

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The Moments No One Sees Are Often the Ones That Matter Most | James Barbour® The Moments No One Sees Are Often the Ones That Matter Most There are days — like this weekend — when reflection feels heavier. We think about sacrifice. About service. About people who gave everything and expected nothing in return. And in that quiet, we’re reminded that not everything meaningful happens in the spotlight. Some of the most defining moments in our lives — and in history — happened in silence. No applause. No audience. No credit. And yet… they shaped everything. That’s true not only on a national level, but in our own personal stories. The most important decision you make might not be a big, public one. It might be the moment you decide to keep going — even when no one else is watching. It might be the commitment you make quietly. The promise you keep to yourself. The standard you hold when no one’s clapping. Character...
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James Barbour on Doubt, Discipline, and Doing the Work Anyway

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There will always be people who doubt you. People who question your choices. People who whisper behind your back or throw shade online. People who sit on the sidelines, never daring themselves — but always ready to judge you for trying. Let them. Let them misunderstand your journey. Let them minimize your ambition. Let them roll their eyes at your dreams. Just don’t join them. The harshest criticism doesn’t always come from strangers. It often shows up in our own head. “Who do you think you are?” “You’re too late.” “You’re not good enough to do this.” Sound familiar? That voice can be loud — especially if it echoes something you’ve heard before. But that voice is not truth. It’s programming. Noise. Old fear in a new disguise. Your job isn’t to silence everyone else. It’s to stop agreeing with them. I’ve been on stage in front of thousands. I’ve had standing ovations and moments I’ll never forget. And I’ve also stood in the dark — Forgotten my lines. ...
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James Barbour: Surviving the Silence

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There’s a strange kind of peace in doing the work when no one’s watching. It’s a lesson I have learned over and over — both onstage and off. No applause. No spotlight. No audience reaction. Just the quiet hum of consistency. I’ve always believed that the most important victories don’t announce themselves. They don’t explode into being — they unfold in silence. Slowly. Steadily. Often without recognition until the results are undeniable. That’s what tonight feels like. A few minutes ago, I uploaded a new video. It’s short. Simple. Honest. And it’s not meant for the masses — it’s meant for you . It’s called “The Quiet Power of Survival.” Because sometimes survival is the victory. Sometimes getting up, staying in it, and refusing to quit is the boldest act of resilience you can offer the world — and yourself. We live in a culture that glorifies big moments. But the real work? The real transformation? It happens when you keep going despite the silence. When the worl...
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Matt Denny - The Power of Awesome

What if awesome wasn’t just a feeling… but a way of life? In this episode of the Star Power Podcast , James Barbour® welcomes retired U.S. Marine, entrepreneur, and founder of The Power of Awesome , Matt Denny . Matt’s mission is simple—but bold: to help people unleash the best version of themselves, no matter the obstacles. Through his own journey of service, leadership, and reinvention, Matt has discovered that awesome isn’t about hype or ego—it’s about mindset, action, and the daily choice to rise above. Together, we dive into: What “The Power of Awesome” really means Lessons from the Marine Corps that apply to life and business How to lead yourself first—before leading others Why adversity can be the birthplace of strength (if you let it) Whether you’re a business owner, artist, leader, or just someone looking to level up your life, this conversation is packed with insights that will fire you up and keep you grounded. 🔥 Get ready to lean in, stand tall, and st...
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Clarity Comes From Action — Here’s Why Waiting for Readiness Keeps You Stuck

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I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard someone say, “I just need to figure out my plan first.” Or, “Once I get clear on what I want, then I’ll move forward.” But clarity doesn’t show up before the action. It shows up because of the action. It’s one of the biggest traps we fall into — this belief that we have to wait for the right time, the right strategy, the perfect conditions before we begin. But momentum works the other way around. Every step you take gives you more information. More feedback. More direction. But sitting still? Overthinking? Waiting for the map to magically appear? That gets you nothing but more doubt. Perfectionism is just fear wearing better clothes. And the longer you sit in planning mode, the harder it gets to take the first step. You convince yourself you’re being responsible. But really… you’re just rehearsing procrastination. It’s not about having the whole plan. It’s about being willing to move without it. So here’s my question for ...
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You’re Not Just the Talent — You’re the Business

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For years, I was the talent. I showed up, did my job, hit the notes, took the bow. Someone else handled the strategy. Someone else owned the platform. Someone else collected the backend. And then one day, I realized: I had built a career… but not a business. There’s a difference. When you’re just the talent, your value is capped. Your reach is limited. Your livelihood depends on someone else saying yes to you. But when you become the business — when you start treating your voice, your story, your ideas, your presence as the engine — everything changes. Suddenly, you’re not auditioning to be chosen. You’re building something that people come to you for. And it doesn’t matter if you’re an actor, a coach, a creator, or an entrepreneur. The truth is the same: You are the brand. You are the IP. You are the media. You are the strategy. If you’re tired of waiting for permission… it’s probably time to stop showing up as the hired help — and start showing up as the one in c...
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